How to Build a Bliss List – 20 Tiny Joys That Shift Your Mood Fast

How to Build a Bliss List – 20 Tiny Joys That Shift Your Mood Fast

Let’s face it—some days feel heavy for no clear reason.
You’re not in a full-blown crisis, but something’s just… off.
You’re stuck in your head. The spark is missing. You feel blah.

That’s when you need your Bliss List.
✨ A personal menu of simple, soul-soothing things that make you feel like you again.

I started mine during a particularly funky season in my life. I was craving joy—but not the big, dramatic kind. I didn’t need a vacation. I just needed relief. I needed to remember that little things could still lift me.

So I started writing down everything that made me feel light, clear, and cared for—even for just five minutes. And guess what? It worked.

What’s a Bliss List?

It’s a go-to list of activities, comforts, and mood-boosters that help you shift from stressed to soothed, from frazzled to grounded.

The key? They’re small. Simple. Repeatable.
You don’t have to plan them, earn them, or spend a ton of money.
They’re already within reach—you just need to remember them.

20 Tiny Joys to Add to Your Bliss List Today

💛 Lighting a candle and watching the flame dance
🎶 Playing your favorite song from high school (and singing out loud)
🌿 Touching a houseplant’s leaves and giving it a little love
📖 Reading one page of a book you actually like
🍋 Squeezing lemon into a glass of water and sipping like royalty
🛁 Taking a 3-minute “reset” shower and imagining stress rinsing off
🧺 Folding laundry while watching a feel-good show
🚶‍♀️ Stepping outside, lifting your face to the sky, and breathing
🍓 Snacking on fruit and pretending you’re in a European café
📱Sending a “just thinking of you” text to someone you love
👕 Putting on your favorite cozy sweatshirt—no occasion needed
🎨 Doodling, painting, or coloring for 10 minutes like you’re 7 again
🕯 Whispering a prayer or affirmation into the morning light
🎧 Listening to a guided meditation or nature sounds on your phone
🧘‍♀️ Stretching your arms up and saying “I’m still here. I’m doing great.”
🎂 Baking something from a box (or licking the spoon if nothing else)
💌 Writing a note to your future self and tucking it in a drawer
🐾 Petting a dog, or watching cute animal videos for five minutes
💃 Dancing to one full song in the kitchen. Bonus points: socks on hardwood.
🪞 Looking in the mirror and saying, “Hey. I love you.”

Now it’s your turn. Build your Bliss List.

Grab a notebook or your phone’s Notes app.
Write down your top 10–20 tiny joys.
Pro tip: Post it somewhere visible—like your fridge, mirror, or journal.

Because when life gets overwhelming, you don’t need to overthink.
You just need a lifeline. A little joy. A moment of light.

You don’t have to wait for a perfect day to feel good.
You can invite tiny bliss in—right now. With a song, a breath, a smile, or a spoonful of peanut butter.

Your joy isn’t silly. It’s sacred.

Now go build that list—and let your light in.

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