Why Bliss Doesn’t Mean Fake Happy—And How to Spot the Real Thing

Let’s set the record straight: Bliss isn’t about pretending. It’s not about slapping a smile on your face when you’re falling apart inside.It’s not “good vibes only” or bypassing your very real, very valid feelings. Real bliss—the kind that lasts, the kind that...

How Combining a Vision for Your Future With Gratitude Can Make All the Difference

Let me tell you something I wish someone had told me in my 20s: You can be grateful for what you have and still reach for more.You can dream of something bigger while still loving where your feet are planted today. In fact? That’s the sweet spot. Gratitude isn’t about...

ME + YOU = WE – Healthy Relationships Start With YOU

Let’s be honest: most of us were never really taught how to have healthy relationships.We were taught to be nice. To keep the peace. To please. To perform. But not always how to honor ourselves within the “we.” And that, sweet soul, is the most important part. Because...
Why Gratitude Is the Gateway to Bliss—Even When Life Feels Blah

Why Gratitude Is the Gateway to Bliss—Even When Life Feels Blah

Let’s be honest—some days just feel meh.Your coffee’s lukewarm, your to-do list is overwhelming, your vibe is somewhere between “blah” and “can I just hide under a blanket?” I get it. I’ve had those seasons too.And I used to think I had to wait until life felt good to...

The Morning Practice That Got Me Through My Quarter-Life Crisis

The Morning Practice That Got Me Through My Quarter-Life Crisis

I was 35 when everything looked fine on the outside...but inside, I was melting. I had checked all the “shoulds” off the list.✔️ Job.✔️ House.✔️ Relationship. And still—I woke up with a pit in my stomach.Was this what adulthood was supposed to feel like?Was I broken...

The Secret Sauce to Confidence? Knowing Your CliftonStrengths

The Secret Sauce to Confidence? Knowing Your CliftonStrengths

If you've ever felt stuck in a cycle of self-doubt, or wondered why some things come so naturally to you while others feel like an uphill battle, then let me introduce you to one of my favorite tools for self-discovery: CliftonStrengths. CliftonStrengths is a...

Why Your 20s Feel So Hard (And Why You Should Cut Yourself Some Slack)

Why Your 20s Feel So Hard (And Why You Should Cut Yourself Some Slack)

Let’s face it—being in your 20s is no joke. It’s a time when you’re figuring out who you are, developing "adulting" life skills, and trying to stay strong as you transition into your 30s. But here’s the thing: you don’t need to have it all figured out right now. In...

How I Manifest Everything I Want (Without Feeling Woo-Woo About It)

How I Manifest Everything I Want (Without Feeling Woo-Woo About It)

Want to know my go-to method for turning my big dreams into reality? Spoiler alert: it doesn’t involve a magic wand or endless vision boards. (Although, I’m not knocking a solid Pinterest session.) Manifestation is less about wishing and more about getting clear,...

How to Shift from FOMO to the Joy of Creation

How to Shift from FOMO to the Joy of Creation

In a world where everyone’s highlight reel is just a scroll away, it’s easy to feel like you’re missing out. FOMO—the fear of missing out—can sneak in when you see your friends traveling to exotic places, starting new relationships, or landing dream jobs. It’s that...

You Can Love Yourself: The Empowerment Anthem We All Need

You Can Love Yourself: The Empowerment Anthem We All Need

"But if nobody loves youand you feel like dust on an empty shelfjust rememberyou can love yourself" – Keb' Mo' In life, there are times when it feels like you're dust gathering on an empty shelf—unnoticed and unloved. It's an emotional space we've all found ourselves...

Love, Gratitude and Serenity

Love, Gratitude and Serenity

A grownup is a master of three things: LOVE, GRATITUDE and SERENITY. -- Kat Frati Hi, it’s Coach Kat. Thanks for reading my blog. I'd like to say first off that I love you. In ways, you are no different than I am and I know that you are capable of great things. I know...

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