I Probably Have ADHD… But Here’s Why I’m Not Interested in the Label

Let’s just call it what it is:I get distracted easily.I forget things.I interrupt people when I’m excited.I lose steam halfway through the task.I say YES way too quickly.And if you want to torture me? Make me sit still and wait for something. Yeah... if someone handed...

The 5 Elements of Wellbeing That Could Change the World

(And Why It All Starts with Your Job) What if we’ve been asking the wrong question? For years, we’ve tried to fix burnout with better time management. We’ve addressed stress with yoga classes and bonus days off. We’ve added “self-care” to our to-do lists. But...

This Summer, Just Become You — For Half the Price

Why I'm offering 10 coaching sessions for only $500 in July! Something about summer makes you pause and think..."Is this really the life I want?" Maybe it’s the slower pace. Maybe it’s the extra sunlight. Or maybe it’s the quiet whisper in your heart saying: “It’s...
Don’t Worry, Be Happy (How to Change Your State of Mind)

Don’t Worry, Be Happy (How to Change Your State of Mind)

You know I’ve lived enough life to have seen my fair share of trials, tribulations, and plenty of worry. I used to think that worrying was my way of controlling a situation—or preparing for the worst. But here’s what I’ve learned after many years:Worrying never serves...

How to Love Yourself (It’s More Than You Think)

How to Love Yourself (It’s More Than You Think)

Years ago, I came across a phrase that I couldn’t quite grasp: “Love yourself first.” It sounded nice—almost poetic—but what did it really mean? Was I supposed to write myself poetry? Give myself awards? Sing sweet songs to myself? It felt a bit… confusing. But I...

How Worship Is a Form of Gratitude

How Worship Is a Form of Gratitude

Gratitude isn’t just a list in a journal. It isn’t just saying “thank you” when something goes your way. Gratitude is a posture. A way of being. A form of worship. In every faith tradition—across cultures and generations—there is this beautiful, universal thread:...

Who Has It Worse Than You Do? (And Why That Matters)

Who Has It Worse Than You Do? (And Why That Matters)

Let’s be honest: When life feels hard, the last thing you want to hear is, “Other people have it worse.” It can feel dismissive. Minimizing. Even shaming.And that’s not the kind of gratitude I believe in.Real gratitude doesn’t erase your pain.It simply invites you to...

Why Gratitude Is the Gateway to Bliss—Even When Life Feels Blah

Why Gratitude Is the Gateway to Bliss—Even When Life Feels Blah

Let’s be honest—some days just feel meh.Your coffee’s lukewarm, your to-do list is overwhelming, your vibe is somewhere between “blah” and “can I just hide under a blanket?” I get it. I’ve had those seasons too.And I used to think I had to wait until life felt good to...

The Morning Practice That Got Me Through My Quarter-Life Crisis

The Morning Practice That Got Me Through My Quarter-Life Crisis

I was 35 when everything looked fine on the outside...but inside, I was melting. I had checked all the “shoulds” off the list.✔️ Job.✔️ House.✔️ Relationship. And still—I woke up with a pit in my stomach.Was this what adulthood was supposed to feel like?Was I broken...

The Secret Sauce to Confidence? Knowing Your CliftonStrengths

The Secret Sauce to Confidence? Knowing Your CliftonStrengths

If you've ever felt stuck in a cycle of self-doubt, or wondered why some things come so naturally to you while others feel like an uphill battle, then let me introduce you to one of my favorite tools for self-discovery: CliftonStrengths. CliftonStrengths is a...

Why Your 20s Feel So Hard (And Why You Should Cut Yourself Some Slack)

Why Your 20s Feel So Hard (And Why You Should Cut Yourself Some Slack)

Let’s face it—being in your 20s is no joke. It’s a time when you’re figuring out who you are, developing "adulting" life skills, and trying to stay strong as you transition into your 30s. But here’s the thing: you don’t need to have it all figured out right now. In...

How I Manifest Everything I Want (Without Feeling Woo-Woo About It)

How I Manifest Everything I Want (Without Feeling Woo-Woo About It)

Want to know my go-to method for turning my big dreams into reality? Spoiler alert: it doesn’t involve a magic wand or endless vision boards. (Although, I’m not knocking a solid Pinterest session.) Manifestation is less about wishing and more about getting clear,...

How to Shift from FOMO to the Joy of Creation

How to Shift from FOMO to the Joy of Creation

In a world where everyone’s highlight reel is just a scroll away, it’s easy to feel like you’re missing out. FOMO—the fear of missing out—can sneak in when you see your friends traveling to exotic places, starting new relationships, or landing dream jobs. It’s that...

You Can Love Yourself: The Empowerment Anthem We All Need

You Can Love Yourself: The Empowerment Anthem We All Need

"But if nobody loves youand you feel like dust on an empty shelfjust rememberyou can love yourself" – Keb' Mo' In life, there are times when it feels like you're dust gathering on an empty shelf—unnoticed and unloved. It's an emotional space we've all found ourselves...

Love, Gratitude and Serenity

Love, Gratitude and Serenity

A grownup is a master of three things: LOVE, GRATITUDE and SERENITY. -- Kat Frati Hi, it’s Coach Kat. Thanks for reading my blog. I'd like to say first off that I love you. In ways, you are no different than I am and I know that you are capable of great things. I know...

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