If you've ever felt stuck in a cycle of self-doubt, or wondered why some things come so naturally to you while others feel like an uphill battle, then let me introduce you to one of my favorite tools for self-discovery: CliftonStrengths. CliftonStrengths is a...
Called to Guide 20-Somethings: My Journey to Faith, Strengths, and Purpose
Hello and welcome—I’m so glad you’re here. Let me introduce myself: I’m a 60-something woman living a life filled with love, growth, and God’s purpose. I’m a wife, mother of four (plus two wonderful stepchildren), a mother-in-law, a grandmother, a daughter, and a...
From Ramen to Riches: Building a Life You Love in Your 20s and 30s
"The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down." -- Proverbs 14 Proverbs 14 speaks right to my heart. This isn’t just about bricks and mortar (although I’ve hammered my way through a few home projects in my time). It’s about...
Opening Your Eyes: The Secret to Finding Your Happiness and Purpose
Okay, let’s get real for a second. How many times have you thought, “If I just get that promotion, find my dream partner, or finally hit my goal weight, THEN I’ll be happy”? If you’re nodding along, you’re not alone. We all fall into the trap of thinking happiness is...
Lead Yourself First: What Job Can Teach Us About Being Your Own Boss
Alright, let’s get real, 20-somethings. Life in your 20s? It’s a whole thing. One minute you’re vibing with iced coffee and Pinterest boards for your dream life, and the next, you’re spiraling because… um, what even is adulthood? Here’s the tea: before you can figure...
New Year, New Vision
"I know that my Redeemer lives, and that in the end He will stand on the earth." – Job 19:25 Let’s kick off 2025 with a fresh perspective and a little wisdom from Job. Now, hear me out—before you start thinking, "Wow, she’s really going Old Testament on me," let’s...
Want Deeper Relationships? Stop Talking and Start Listening
Have you ever been in a conversation where you just knew the other person wasn’t really listening? Maybe they were nodding along, but you could tell they were just waiting for their turn to talk. Oof. It stings, right? Here’s the thing: intimacy isn’t lost when we...
Why Your 20s Feel So Hard (And Why You Should Cut Yourself Some Slack)
Let’s face it—being in your 20s is no joke. It’s a time when you’re figuring out who you are, developing "adulting" life skills, and trying to stay strong as you transition into your 30s. But here’s the thing: you don’t need to have it all figured out right now. In...
Why Being You Is the Secret to Feeling Seen
Alright, let’s have a heart-to-heart. Have you ever felt like you’re constantly explaining yourself, defending who you are, or trying to convince others to see your good intentions? (Been there.) It’s exhausting, right? But here’s the real kicker: being truly...
Navigating Your 20s: Tips for Thriving in Life’s Most Transformative Decade
Your 20s are a time of discovery, growth, and, let’s be honest, a bit of chaos. It’s like you’re assembling the IKEA furniture of life—there’s no clear instruction manual, but you’re figuring it out piece by piece. As someone who’s been there, I want to share some...
Bringing Back Closeness: A Guide for Wives Navigating Unbalanced Time in Marriage
Marriage, like all relationships, goes through phases. Sometimes those phases are effortless, with natural closeness and connection; other times, life takes over, and the divide starts to show. If you’re finding that your husband is going out at night and leaving you...
When You Learn to Love the Unpleasant, Your Life Becomes More Beautiful
We often go through life with an instinctive preference for what we find beautiful or pleasing, whether it's in the people we meet, the environments we inhabit, or even in our own reflections in the mirror. Yet, what if the secret to a more beautiful life wasn't in...
The Power of Taking the First Step: A Personal Journey
Dear friends, I want to share a deeply personal story with you, one that taught me an invaluable lesson about the power of initiative and the impact of our actions, by taking the first step toward a more positive life. A true story of positivity Several years...
Celebrating 12 Years of Marriage: Navigating Life’s Journey Together
As I reflect on the joyous occasion of celebrating our 12-year wedding anniversary, I'm reminded of the profound lessons that life, and the game of cribbage, have taught us along the way. This journey has been an incredible adventure, and I want to share some...
Are Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce a Match Made in Heaven? Exploring the Possibility
The recent buzz about Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce being a couple has everyone talking. While it's definitely too soon to label them as a match made in heaven, there are a few intriguing clues that suggest they might just be a good fit. Here's a closer look at what...
The Art of Being “Happy With and Happy Without”: A Guide to Inner Fulfillment
"I'm gonna make you happy, but first, I'll make you strong," said life. Hello beautiful souls! You know, life is such a rollercoaster of ups and downs, isn’t it? One moment, we're soaring high, enjoying the view from the top. The next moment, we're descending at...
Here’s Why Taking Care of You is a Win for Us All
As we elevate ourselves, we uplift the world around us. Your well-being isn't a solo journey; it's the first note in a symphony of collective harmony. -- Coach Kat Frati Listen, taking care of yourself isn't just about bubble baths and yoga classes. This is about the...
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