What If Your Anxiety Isn’t Your Fault?

What if your anxiety isn’t a flaw—but a signal that you’re trying to control the uncontrollable? Inspired by the teachings of Michael Singer, this post invites you to stop wrestling with life and start dancing with it. Learn how to shift from a lose-lose mindset to a win-win way of living—one where peace and joy are possible, no matter what unfolds.

Why Your Strengths Matter in 2025

Imagine walking into a job interview, not with a fancy degree in hand, but with a clear sense of who you are, what you're great at, and how you uniquely show up in the world. That’s not wishful thinking. That’s where the world is headed. We’re living through a quiet...

I Probably Have ADHD… But Here’s Why I’m Not Interested in the Label

Let’s just call it what it is:I get distracted easily.I forget things.I interrupt people when I’m excited.I lose steam halfway through the task.I say YES way too quickly.And if you want to torture me? Make me sit still and wait for something. Yeah... if someone handed...
How to Love Yourself (It’s More Than You Think)

How to Love Yourself (It’s More Than You Think)

Years ago, I came across a phrase that I couldn’t quite grasp: “Love yourself first.” It sounded nice—almost poetic—but what did it really mean? Was I supposed to write myself poetry? Give myself awards? Sing sweet songs to myself? It felt a bit… confusing. But I...

How Can You Serve Someone Else Today?

How Can You Serve Someone Else Today?

We talk a lot about self-love (and for good reason), but sometimes the most powerful way to reconnect with yourself… is by showing up for someone else. Not in a “lose yourself” kind of way.Not to earn validation or prove your worth.But because love is meant to move....

ME + YOU = WE – Healthy Relationships Start With YOU

ME + YOU = WE – Healthy Relationships Start With YOU

Let’s be honest: most of us were never really taught how to have healthy relationships.We were taught to be nice. To keep the peace. To please. To perform. But not always how to honor ourselves within the “we.” And that, sweet soul, is the most important part. Because...

Why Self-Love Isn’t Selfish—It’s Your Superpower

Why Self-Love Isn’t Selfish—It’s Your Superpower

When I was younger, I thought self-love was something... extra.Like a bubble bath. Or a vacation. Or a fancy face mask from that one aisle in Target that smells like a dream. But here’s what I’ve learned—after raising kids, building businesses, breaking down (and...

Boundaries Are Beautiful – Here’s How to Set Them

Boundaries Are Beautiful – Here’s How to Set Them

I used to think setting boundaries meant I was being mean.Or selfish. Or “too much.”Now I know the truth: boundaries are beautiful. They’re not walls to shut people out.They’re bridges that teach people how to love you well.And in your 20s? Boundaries are one of the...

The Secret Sauce to Confidence? Knowing Your CliftonStrengths

The Secret Sauce to Confidence? Knowing Your CliftonStrengths

If you've ever felt stuck in a cycle of self-doubt, or wondered why some things come so naturally to you while others feel like an uphill battle, then let me introduce you to one of my favorite tools for self-discovery: CliftonStrengths. CliftonStrengths is a...

From Ramen to Riches: Building a Life You Love in Your 20s and 30s

From Ramen to Riches: Building a Life You Love in Your 20s and 30s

"The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down."  -- Proverbs 14 Proverbs 14 speaks right to my heart. This isn’t just about bricks and mortar (although I’ve hammered my way through a few home projects in my time). It’s about...

Opening Your Eyes: The Secret to Finding Your Happiness and Purpose

Opening Your Eyes: The Secret to Finding Your Happiness and Purpose

Okay, let’s get real for a second. How many times have you thought, “If I just get that promotion, find my dream partner, or finally hit my goal weight, THEN I’ll be happy”? If you’re nodding along, you’re not alone. We all fall into the trap of thinking happiness is...

Lead Yourself First: What Job Can Teach Us About Being Your Own Boss

Lead Yourself First: What Job Can Teach Us About Being Your Own Boss

Alright, let’s get real, 20-somethings. Life in your 20s? It’s a whole thing. One minute you’re vibing with iced coffee and Pinterest boards for your dream life, and the next, you’re spiraling because… um, what even is adulthood? Here’s the tea: before you can figure...

New Year, New Vision

New Year, New Vision

"I know that my Redeemer lives, and that in the end He will stand on the earth." – Job 19:25 Let’s kick off 2025 with a fresh perspective and a little wisdom from Job. Now, hear me out—before you start thinking, "Wow, she’s really going Old Testament on me," let’s...

Want Deeper Relationships? Stop Talking and Start Listening

Want Deeper Relationships? Stop Talking and Start Listening

Have you ever been in a conversation where you just knew the other person wasn’t really listening? Maybe they were nodding along, but you could tell they were just waiting for their turn to talk. Oof. It stings, right? Here’s the thing: intimacy isn’t lost when we...

Why Your 20s Feel So Hard (And Why You Should Cut Yourself Some Slack)

Why Your 20s Feel So Hard (And Why You Should Cut Yourself Some Slack)

Let’s face it—being in your 20s is no joke. It’s a time when you’re figuring out who you are, developing "adulting" life skills, and trying to stay strong as you transition into your 30s. But here’s the thing: you don’t need to have it all figured out right now. In...

Why Being You Is the Secret to Feeling Seen

Why Being You Is the Secret to Feeling Seen

Alright, let’s have a heart-to-heart. Have you ever felt like you’re constantly explaining yourself, defending who you are, or trying to convince others to see your good intentions? (Been there.) It’s exhausting, right? But here’s the real kicker: being truly...

The Power of Taking the First Step: A Personal Journey

The Power of Taking the First Step: A Personal Journey

Dear friends, I want to share a deeply personal story with you, one that taught me an invaluable lesson about the power of initiative and the impact of our actions, by taking the first step toward a more positive life.   A true story of positivity Several years...

Here’s Why Taking Care of You is a Win for Us All

Here’s Why Taking Care of You is a Win for Us All

As we elevate ourselves, we uplift the world around us. Your well-being isn't a solo journey; it's the first note in a symphony of collective harmony. -- Coach Kat Frati Listen, taking care of yourself isn't just about bubble baths and yoga classes. This is about the...